How to Politely Decline Being Photographed at Parties and Other Private Events
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We’ve all been there: you’re at a party or private event and you notice that someone is taking your photo. Whether it’s a friend or a stranger, it can be embarrassing and uncomfortable. You may not want your picture online for any number of reasons, but when you try to politely decline, you may be met with criticism or confusion. It can be difficult to navigate these situations, but there are some polite ways to decline being photographed at parties and other private events.
There are dozens of reasons why someone might not want their photo online. From having dealt with a stalker to being employed in a role in which party photos are frowned upon, it’s important to respect the privacy of others. If you find yourself being photographed without consent, Miss Manners suggests you slyly turn to look at something or bend down to tie a shoe. If questioned, you may say, “You know, I don’t want to ruin the picture, so I will just step aside.” After a few takes of this, your would-be photographers will probably be too exasperated and bewildered to protest.
It’s also important to remember that not everyone is comfortable being photographed in social situations. If you are hosting a party or private event, you should make sure to ask permission before taking photos of your guests. You can also put a sign up that says “No photos please” or similar. That way, your guests will know that it’s okay to decline being photographed.
If you have been invited to a wedding that states “black tie only”, you may feel like you have to break the bank to buy a dress. However, “black tie” is generally interpreted as a floor-length dress made of a dressy material like velvet, chiffon, silk, satin or taffeta. If you do not already have something that fits the criteria, Miss Manners will defend your choice to wear the best of what you already have in the way of dressy clothes.
At the end of the day, it’s important to remember that you have the right to decline being photographed. Whether it’s a friend or a stranger taking your photo, it’s okay to politely decline and step out of the picture. You don’t have to explain your reasons, and you shouldn’t be met with criticism or confusion. Respect the privacy of others, and remember that not everyone is comfortable being photographed in social situations.
